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In my book, bisexuality in men is a myth, just like the Loch Ness monster. P.E.R.I.O.D.
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I am sort of flirting a bit with this older bisexual married guy from one of those applications for a while just messages and we finally able to talk on the phone. The thing is that I gave him my number and be called me back anonymously (wtf?). :rofl: He talked about his family and his kids (almost similar age as me!) but I seem to get that he is a closeted bisexual. One thing that bugged me was that he wished he could change his "lifestyle" to be more "free". This was a red flag for me!
Should I continue to flirt back or be just a "regular guy" friend? I don't want to mess up his marriage and family! X_X He did hinted that he likes younger guys. I just wanted to hear more opinions to our bisexual members. :cheers:
Should I continue to flirt back or be just a "regular guy" friend? I don't want to mess up his marriage and family! X_X He did hinted that he likes younger guys. I just wanted to hear more opinions to our bisexual members. :cheers:
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I'm bi but i'm around your age..so no married no kids. From what you said I think the guy you flirting with wants open-up and experiment his bisexual side. But while Bi's generally have the choice of going both ways., it's risky when one is in a legal-married-committed relationship!
Should he wish to really change 'lifestyle', maybe he should consider coming out to his wife..thats upto him to approach. I don't know how far you are going while flirt-messaging, don't let it turn into feeling wanting to DO something together., you woudn't want your conscience reproach you! I'll say take a step-back, just be a regular friend. jmo
^^ Yeah, I know but he is so damn beautiful inside and out. I should see how to resists temptations but I seem to get he wants to try it. I don't know after that what will happen...
Thanks for the post and yeah this is a bit "extreme" since he has kids and all.
Thanks for the post and yeah this is a bit "extreme" since he has kids and all.
Anyway, Good Luck! C:C
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- If you want a boyfriend, this guy is a really bad bet. The best case, (you both really love each other), is the worst case because you will likely be strung along as the "other woman".
. - If you just want some sex fun and give him a night he'll never forget, then go for it.
. - The wife and kids are his responsibility, not yours.
Thanks, I already replied my longest message ever to Rebel7 about it!
I do know about the consequences if I go further and I don't think I'll be serious about it since its just too complicated scenario for me. But I think I can do #2 pretty good. :blushing:
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they are great fun
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Bah. I'm a bi guy. Always have been out with it. I live in a culturally conservative part of the U.S., and bisexuality isn't all that easy. The gay men think you're too ashamed to come out of the closet and the straight women think you're "yucky." In theory, I have a wide pool to choose from. In practice, I have access to promiscuous/bi women or closeted men who only really want to rub genitals.
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ethanbj
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passive?
?? - what does sexuality have to do with fidelity? if you're in a committed relationship, what difference does it make? if you're not in a committed relationship, again - what difference does it make! Being Bi (and I am), doesn't give you license to have a gf outside of the relationship! sounds like some 'talk time' might be helpful :thumbs up:
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ethanbj
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good point
@VinceSF:
I thought you have to clearify if it's ok for you to flirt, have sex and many more things with a married men! A frind of mine and me started something sexual, and I broke it down while we doing that, because I know his girlfriend very good...
I thought you have to clearify if it's ok for you to flirt, have sex and many more things with a married men! A frind of mine and me started something sexual, and I broke it down while we doing that, because I know his girlfriend very good...
My current bf is bisexual. He cleared it out from the beginning that he would be fucking women on the side.
However, he says he never did ever since we got together because it doesn't feel right to him.
It's not an easy thing for either, I guess. Specially for him.
However, he says he never did ever since we got together because it doesn't feel right to him.
It's not an easy thing for either, I guess. Specially for him.
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Sry I didnt have the patience to read all of the previous answers xD so I'll just give mine. Dude, being bi doesnt mean that he can have one of each, means that he goes both ways, he's not split in half, he cant say I'm single as gay but commited as straight or the other way around, he cant tell u to come to his gf or eventually wife bday so u can celebrate or tell his wife he's going to his bf house... Being bi doenst mean he can have both, I know it's hard to fall for a bi guy and everything because you think you have 2x the competition, I dont really see that way, if he likes u, doesnt matter the others, he should stay with u only. Cheaters are cheaters, hiding behind the "I'm bi" flag is just an excuse, he might even have other guys as well. See greglio side... his bf warned him so he wouldnt get hurt, but settled right after cuz THAT's a real relationship, it's not a matter of being hard or difficult. It's matter of character, his bf's probably faithful cuz he likes him a lot.
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If he cheats on you with a girl he would cheat on you with another man sooner rather than later.
Bisexuality != Nymphomania
I've been with my GF for a very long time and we have an open relationship (I can sleep with men, she's free to play with girls). She has a long time GF as well and we all live together for more than three years. Before I started to go out with her I had both a longterm BF (for over two years) and a longterm GF (for over 1 year). During that time I never cheated on them even tough I fantasized about having sex with men (just like straight men fantasize about other women and like gay men think about other men) when I was with my GF and vice versa. And I had my fair share of care free sex with both men and women when I was single.
My last BF was gay and he didn't mind me living with my GF, we had an open relashionship in which we had sex with other men (mostly because he was away on bussines a lot), we broke up because he had to leave for USA and he won't be back for a long time.
People have different stances about sexuality and about what's fidelity, the main thing to remember is that the only thing that matters is your happines. A lot of people think my GF, her GF and I are wierd, but we're loving it and we're happy. Screw what other people think about you.
If you're not a jelous person and if you think you could handle to see your BF go out with girls give it a shot.
And remember even tough girls have breasts and vagina, you have a nice firm cock and a tight ass.
Bisexuality != Nymphomania
I've been with my GF for a very long time and we have an open relationship (I can sleep with men, she's free to play with girls). She has a long time GF as well and we all live together for more than three years. Before I started to go out with her I had both a longterm BF (for over two years) and a longterm GF (for over 1 year). During that time I never cheated on them even tough I fantasized about having sex with men (just like straight men fantasize about other women and like gay men think about other men) when I was with my GF and vice versa. And I had my fair share of care free sex with both men and women when I was single.
My last BF was gay and he didn't mind me living with my GF, we had an open relashionship in which we had sex with other men (mostly because he was away on bussines a lot), we broke up because he had to leave for USA and he won't be back for a long time.
People have different stances about sexuality and about what's fidelity, the main thing to remember is that the only thing that matters is your happines. A lot of people think my GF, her GF and I are wierd, but we're loving it and we're happy. Screw what other people think about you.
If you're not a jelous person and if you think you could handle to see your BF go out with girls give it a shot.
And remember even tough girls have breasts and vagina, you have a nice firm cock and a tight ass.
