Dating someone twice your age?

[josh_the_hot_boy]

Comments like that are ageist and sexist; implying that young people are inferior for not living up to their gender roles. Simply having a preference doesn't make one ageist, but if people need to articulate them via such insults, then perhaps they are.

I've dated someone twice my age, but not because I saw them walking down the street and thought they were really hot; I got to know them and found we shared a great deal beyond age.

That's not what I meant. Some people I've met have said that to me and they used the term "real man". I was just stating that I've met people that are opposites to the 50 yo into a 20 label. and fyi just because someone isn't into people much older than them doesn't mean automatically that its all about look. I tend to find more compatibility in people more my own age than people much older than me.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

I am afraid that for me it is the same. Don't know if there are many hot boys of 130 years of age. If there are, maybe we could change a wheelchair into a hot-rod!

) ) ) - let me know when you turn that age... my grandma is looking for a young man... she's 250 years old. I hope you don't mind if she bring her on coffin's worms. Hahahaha!

As for the topic... Josh dude (by the way nice name, it's also the name of my son ). Someone twice my age would be 70 years old Would I go for some one twice my age? Not really, but I have after years of being escort in my youngest age had sex with clients twice and half my age and sometimes more. I started being an escort at 19 and stopped at 21 (after I've got my daughter), so do the math... 38, 45, 50 (this was the oldest I was accepting as an escort for sex encounters - because it's not always about sex). Of course there's the fact that no 19 years old would pay for an escort (unless they are in some sort of social and/or physical situation or they just have money and can afford that black twinkish dude I was).

Because of this experience I have no problem whatsoever with age, although I do have preferences and having preferences is not being ageist at all. My dude is 10 years younger then I am but that doesn't mean that he's an open door for every older gentlemen out there, I'm quite sure he'd go with someone his age if we were to break our relationship. Yeah well I do not look my age though... but at 35 saying this is a bit stupid because 35 is not old, I'm ancient to my daughter and son, I'm nicely rapped and good to eat for my dude and I'm a baby to my parents. And to other that believe I'd be an ageist because I'd refuse to date them based on their age, they are the people who can kiss my cute and firm brown little ass.:rofl:

You're 25 now, tomorrow you'll be 35, your tastes will change. many guys in here of my age and older can certainly vouch for that. :cheers:

PS: Don't worry so much about those who are frustrated, they need to grow up (even if they are well over 60 years old ).

 

[ritsuka]

That's not what I meant. Some people I've met have said that to me and they used the term "real man". I was just stating that I've met people that are opposites to the 50 yo into a 20 label.

My reply was to the comments of other people that you related. I didn't think or mean to imply that you were the one who said them or thought that way yourself.

 

[josh_the_hot_boy]

My reply was to the comments of other people that you related. I didn't think or mean to imply that you were the one who said them or thought that way yourself.

Oh okay I understand. Yeah some people are strange but I just ignore the weird comments. I was just wondering what other people thought about the subject.

 

[crew32]

It's not about the age, it's more about the look imo. Some people don't look 40.

 

[Top_to_Bottom]

I wouldn't personally, because he would be too old for me, but in principle nothing wrong with it.

 

[Dendood]

Well, here's a thread worth putting in a time capsule.

I'd wager the 50something guys hitting on you (most aren't) are the very guys who at 25 balked at the idea of an older guy hitting on them when they were young. And when you're fifty, your song is going to be such a different melody. Throw this baby in a time capsule. Prove me wrong.

 

[bornrebel88]

I wouldn't date someone twice my age. just not my preference. I only date guys 1-6yrs older than me.

 

[josh_the_hot_boy]

When I'm 50 I'll still be dating people my own age. Ie 50ish!

 

[pjotor]

I never did!

 

[josh_the_hot_boy]

I never did!

May I ask what you are referring to???

 

[leowhyet]

It all depends on the maturity level, some of the older guys can behave just as poorly as the ones straight off their high school graduation. If they have their life together and aren't emotional train wrecks then age is just a number.