I come from a very attractive family of ten brothers and sisters...I was always felt to feel like the ugly duckling of the bunch even though many people found me to be very attractive as well..it wasn't until I got older and was around very self-confident people who would always tell me how good looking I was, that I learned to love myself...just think though, if u don't love yourself,,,how can u expect anyone else to...love starts with u...pass it on...lol