Let's do some analysis on a couple of lines of a particular Ancient Latin poem : Gajus Valerius Catullus (84 BCE-54BCE),
Carmina no. 16, the first two lines.
Latin :
Pedicabo ego vos et irrumabo,
English trans: I'll fuck you in ass and mouth,
Note that in the english translation, there's a single verb ("fuck") but two objects ("ass" and "mouth"), while in the latin original we've got two very different verbs - "pedicabo" and "irrumabo". So we immediately encounter this particular richness of the latin sexual vocabulary - pedicabo isn't any old kind of fucking, it's buttfucking and nothing else.
Latin : Aureli pathice et cinaede Furi,
English trans: Aurelius you
pathicus and you
cinaedus Furius,
If Catullus succeed in butt-and-mouth fucking Aurelius and Furius, he will make them a
pathicus and a
cinaedus since he then has made them two penetrated male Roman citizen. So this famous/infamous poem by Catullus works precisely according to the particular logics of Roman sexuality I explained in the former post above.
But now it's time to complicate things quite a bit!
If you're a male Roman citizen, the
only other Roman citizen you're supposed to have sex with is your wedded wife.
But doesn't that mean that the famous Priapic masculinity goes down the drain? No, it doesn't, since citizens weren't the only socio-political category in Rome. First of all - you've got all the slaves, and as a slave owner no one will ever care what you do with your own slaves, male or female, boy or girl. And to be a slave owner, you don't have to be particularly wealthy; most families had at least one or two household slaves.
And then there's the categories somewhere in between Roman citizens and slaves. As an example we could take freedmen, i.e. former slaves who for one or another reason has been set free by their former masters. Freedmen couldn't become citizens, but children of freedmen could.
Another example could be foreigners living in Rome.
And then of course there was always the brothels - the
lupanar - with prostitutes of both sex.
Let's do some comparing between Roman and Greek sexual culture!
We'll start with the visual symbolism of the god Priapus, who was a god of Greek origins, but he didn't become truly important until he emigrated from Greece to Rome. Small statues and painted images of Priapus was very popular and here's a few examples:
But Romans didn't just like images of particular Gods with immense schlong's, the liked to look at pictures of ordinary humans with very big dicks :
Looking at images from archaic and classical period Greece, we see something different : Petite, slender and elegant willies are the model weather you look at young
ephebes or mature bearded men.
But if you want to look at really big fat dicks, you'll have to look at subhuman mythological creatures such as silenes and satyrs:
Another important difference between Greece and Rome concerned the Greek ideal of
paiderastheia, literally : the love of Boy's, involving a mature lover (
erastes) and a young beloved boy (
eromenos).
All this should occure in an educational context, and the boys were the sons of Greek citizens - and that's exactly what the Romans couldn't handle. You just don't fuck with the son of another Roman citizen.