How do I deal with being surrounded by hot straight guys?

[Z.C.]

Hey everyone, I'm in my senior year now of high school (yes I'm 18) and I am surrounded by hot, muscular, straight guys. I'm at my boiling point, I've dated tons of girls, but now, how do I say this... I want to hook up with one of these hot guys around my school. Problem is, they're all straight as a frickin arrow!
I don't know what to do... I'm at the point where I'm willing to just jump the next hot guy I see in the hallway. Are there any other ways or tricks to deal with this?

 

[diklik]

I don't know what to do... I'm at the point where I'm willing to just jump the next hot guy I see in the hallway. Are there any other ways or tricks to deal with this?

Some of us would LOVE to be in your shoes...hehehehehehe! Maybe try inviting one of those dudes to check out a porn video (str8 porn the first time) with you, if your place is cool to do that. Wait until you both get aroused, and see if he's cool with jacking off together to ease the arousal. From there, you can develop things to "one guy helping another guy out" if he is horny enough and needs to get off. Despite the jock-talk, lots of 18 yr olds are still virgins, or don't really get that much sexual activity with a partner. If the dude is horny, you never know how eager he might be to have you help him relieve his urges.

 

[loveless92]

I have the same issue, but I'm a year older. It really sucks.

 

[drhbk]

the same problem..but alot of ma friends told me abut they might me bi..so am working at those kinds of boys..

 

[Texguy]

Older guy here, but my recommendation is masturbate... college aged guys and older have a clearer view of who they are...... approach a guy in high school, and you will be "the fag" of class 2011....it's not worth it in the long run (I was a virgin until age 23, so it's not the end of the world)

 

[alant]

@Z.C. are you out in your high school?

fortunately you're very close to getting to college, where you will have no trouble meeting other guys in your situation.

otherwise, @texguy's advice is definitely the best.

 

[jw4833]

I've been in the company of hot straight guys for quite some years now. Even when I was still in the closet, I was surrounded by them. However, what I can say on this subject matter is that there have been straight guys whom I became good friends with or have a good acquaintance with at the job. Those whom I became good friends with do know my sexual orientation and have no problem with it because I give them the upmost respect. Surprisingly, those are the guys who do make attempts to hit on me becuase of that just fact of me not hitting or approaching them sexually. One of the VP's at my job who is a family man and very good looking for his age, I have a good relationship with and what is so weird about this is that I've been told by many people throughout the company who have told me that he is very distant with people and they are shocked to see how he opens up around me. In fact, I have met his wife several times, and she confided in me how he talks about me a lot and is very fond of me and that he told her that if I was a woman, he would fuck me all over their home and have more children than Kate Gosselin...??? because he can tell that I'm a great fuck!!!

With all that being said...you should probably wait until you enter college because high school guys will cause you a lot of headaches and difficulties that you don't need. College guys seem to be more open to experiment..

 

[damicuis]

Pot, booze, and porn, combine them with the right guy and you can drop his guard enough to have a chance...

 

[ubc24]

Yeah I would probably wait it your out of high school. You don't want one decision to ruin the rest of your high school experience. Since your 18 you could always go to a bathhouse if there is one where you live. Just remember to play safe.

 

[brmstn69]

A few minutes before gym class ends, sneak into the locker room, strip naked and kneel in the middle of the shower room floor with a sign around your neck that says "Ball Washer"...

 

[diklik]

A few minutes before gym class ends, sneak into the locker room, strip naked and kneel in the middle of the shower room floor with a sign around your neck that says "Ball Washer"...

Hey, I LIKE that idea!

 

[italianmars]

Be careful... whatever it is you wish, it will happen, sooner or later

 

[Navy514]

There are other guys in your school just like you. Now you just have to figure out who they are. Tread lightly though; there is too much fear and hate out there. Good Luck.

 

[TheCatchNYC]

I have to agree with the others, ride out senior year and go hog-wild your first year of college!

 

[RichardLeary]

I fell in love with this straight guy, and that feeling was killing me. Now, i let go of it. Just remember, gay guys and straight guys are always end up with sorrow or hate.

Still you can go out with them, but don't even think about going that way, it's not gonna work.

Good luck!

 

[cheeseburger90210]

yeah - wait until college and hope you get a hot roommate.

 

[morefake]

Haha, college/university is crazy. I can't walk around campus and count to 10 without seeing a hot guy! Not to mention the hot guys in class!

 

[adofo]

Do what I did, get all of the girls to like you therefore gaining the interests of the "straight" guys and picking them off one by one. Could lead to threats but that's what makes it fun.

 

[Z.C.]

Thanks for the advice everyone! And yeah I don't wanna be the "fag" of my graduating class lol I've seen gay upperclassmen before and I don't wanna be like that. I'll wait til I'm in college, move in with some friends, and see what happens
Hardest part is, I aint got no gaydar haha. But what from what you all told me, college will be a blast! Atleast I can pull of my straight guy act until I graduate since I'm bi no one knows a thing!

 

[Elliston]

I work mostly around women so I don't have this problem.