How do I deal with being surrounded by hot straight guys?

[phoenix]

it's a problem...especially at the gym

 

[intowner]

It definitely becomes a lot easier once you get out of that "awkward phase" with the hormones and all. It also becomes even easier once you get into a good relationship, but fair warning. Don't think that you MUST have a relationship to protect yourself from such urges nor think that having a great relationship will get rid of them all. Even straight men who have their "soul mate" can't help but look and fantasize about other women. Wandering eyes (and minds) is a part of what we are.

 

[iSlut]

In my high school days, I found out a few lads who I thought were straight were not. I always let them make the first move, however. One of my first experiences happened when looking at male/female porn with a jockish neighbor bloke who was a year older than me. I was certain he was straight. He brought up the idea that we could jerk each other off whilst looking at the porn. I played a bit reluctant and acted like he was talking me into it.

Some months later he asked to fuck me in the ass, but I was an anal virgin then and said no. Then he asked me to fuck him in the ass but his mom came home early so that never happened.

 

[Z.C.]

it's a problem...especially at the gym

It definitely IS!!! Alot of the guys that go to my school go to the gym where I workout.
@GodsAndMen, Wow I wish that could happen to me! I remember last year when I was a junior a sophomore in my jewelery class actually got a rock hard stiffy! He showed me (of course through his gym shorts) and it was a pretty good one too, he didn't know what to do cause it was just one of those spontaneous erection things. So, like a gentlemen, I offered to solve the problem if you know what I mean He basically just bursted out laughing, thinking it was a joke, I just laughed it off too. So close, SO CLOSE!

 

[loveless92]

I remember last year when I was a junior a sophomore in my jewelery class actually got a rock hard stiffy! He showed me (of course through his gym shorts) and it was a pretty good one too, he didn't know what to do cause it was just one of those spontaneous erection things. So, like a gentlemen, I offered to solve the problem if you know what I mean He basically just bursted out laughing, thinking it was a joke, I just laughed it off too. So close, SO CLOSE!

Hardcore awesomeness right there!
When I was straight I sat next to a guy that always hit on me and touched me and I look back and go hm... should i have done anything?

 

[loveless92]

Wtf, Peoria based HS comes to this campus for a band/orchestra competition AND THESE BOYS ARE HOT! I bet they're all straight too *groan* My luck is shit

 

[Z.C.]

Wtf, Peoria based HS comes to this campus for a band/orchestra competition AND THESE BOYS ARE HOT! I bet they're all straight too *groan* My luck is shit

Same here, today at the bus loop a couple kids on the wrestling team were fooling around and one of them got behind the other in a suggestive way. The other tried to break free but somehow managed to run into me (i was standing against a wall) with the other guy still restraining him. And for a good 10 seconds all it was is him trying to move around to break free while he was against me, with the other guy restraining him. Temptation, you bitch!

 

[diklik]

Same here, today at the bus loop a couple kids on the wrestling team were fooling around

P I had my first guy/guy adventures with teammates on our senior wrestling team. Lemme tell you that boys have never changed over the years, and wrestlers know all about grabbing crotches and asses while in a hold or grappling for control...and it's all part of that sport. Legalized sexual touching right in plain view....YAH!

Str8 (I sometimes wonder) or otherwise, most wrestlers know how to brush a forearm across their opponent's crotch to see if he's getting hard or not. Too bad we don't still practice the original Greco-Roman form of wrestling, where the boys were totally nude and maybe oiled up a bit. THAT would make high school sports way more fun!!

 

[Z.C.]

Too bad we don't still practice the original Greco-Roman form of wrestling, where the boys were totally nude and maybe oiled up a bit. THAT would make high school sports way more fun!!

I would go to every practice and every game!!!!:rofl:

 

[greensummon]

Give each of them your friendly hugs. Do it almost all the time so that they get used to it. Then before they even realize it, they're not so straight anymore

 

[momomomo]

be close friends....and then touch them

 

[Askani]

Lol I totally understand his frustration, while everything can happen in college, nothing beats the highschool thing... As for advices... dude... if you couldnt pick a single one that u might consider a target ur radar is defective, jk xD since you're a senior you should've noticed one or 2 guys looking around at locker room or hallways, u cant be in an all straight school, at this point it's too late to get close enough to do anything so u'd have to sort the possibities and try the "tease" move when you call a friend over, u're late and all and couldnt dress yet, just check out his reactions while u talk and take "forever" to get dried up and dressed, worked for me 2x back in school, and their awkward boner made them look perfect for my somewhat dominant tastes xD. 'Course u cant just try with any1 and need a VERY good poker face to make it look natural all the time. I really dont know if the old watch porn together trick works, I think it's way too obvious... let's c... no, no more ideas, nothing that u can use without coming out at least xD

 

[jeansGuyOZ]

Hey everyone, I'm in my senior year now of high school (yes I'm 18) and I am surrounded by hot, muscular, straight guys. I'm at my boiling point, I've dated tons of girls, but now, how do I say this... I want to hook up with one of these hot guys around my school. Problem is, they're all straight as a frickin arrow!
I don't know what to do... I'm at the point where I'm willing to just jump the next hot guy I see in the hallway. Are there any other ways or tricks to deal with this?

If they really are all straight, then you're fucked. (Figuratively, not literally.)
Your problem is not exactly a new one. My advice: Be open to the possibility that at least some of them may be interested in guys - interested in you, even. Drop hints that you are gay, if you feel comfortable doing so - you don't have to wear a sandwich board saying "GAY", just act as though it's a perfectly natural thing - which it is. And if nothing succeeds, just live with it. Straight guys get frustrated too, very few people actually get all the sex they want.

It helps to wank often.

 

[Behrluvr]

Pot, booze, and porn, combine them with the right guy and you can drop his guard enough to have a chance...

You really don't even need the porn. I've had a couple of experiences with str8 guys and each time it was because we were getting high. It'll never happen if they are not high, but once they get a buzz going things change.

Each time its happened has been totally unplanned, just some friendly hanging out , I wasn't pursuing them or anything, but the situation comes up and one goes for it. You can't force the situation, but be aware and open to the signals and the setting. Amazing what guys will do with a little weed in their bloodstream.

Also , obey the one rule of sex with str8 guys...
~~~~~~NEVER TRY TO KISS ONE, NEVER.~~~

A str8 will suck your cock before he'll kiss you , so forget kissing, it will ruin the scene. Also don't bring it up the next time you run into each other. Pretend you guys never did anything, he doesn't want to talk about it.

 

[Z.C.]

Haha It's funny cuz when I am high I get really horny lol!
That might work actually. A few guys I know and would like to hook up with at school jump at the chance to smoke weed.

 

[987654]

Ah, Man... it really is tough, when you are 'confused' and find yourself in your situation!

I've had a few experiences that really had me worried and got me harder than ever.

The first was when my best friend at the time, began to work out. So, one day, it came up in discussion. "Yeah, Dude, I have abs now. Wanna feel?" Now, this guy is straight, and just wants me to see his progress. I was excited of course, but had to downplay it. His abs were just on the verge of being visible. But, touching his stomach felt good.

Another time, also in high school, one of my friends and I had to work on a project together. We agreed to meet at his house in the afternoon. So, I go and meet him, ring the bell, and he answers the door. My friend is 6'2'', lean with muscles in all the right places... and here he is... shirtless. Crap... He was shirtless a good 30 minutes while I was there. You think I was paying attention to our project? Nope. I casually mentioned how he was in great shape, and without warning, he flexed his bicep, which was the size of an apple....

I guess my point, is, when 'falling' for straight guys, you just have to pretend nothing's going on. I mean, they are straight, so nothing will ever happen.