How do you get used to taking a bigger sized dick?

[js324]

I'm having a hard time taking anything that's 7+ inches all the way to the hilt when i'm on the receiving end. In fact, I can't even seem take anything longer than 7.5 inches .

I've practiced with toys for a while to try and increase the length I can take, but whether it's toys or an actual penis once they're all the way in there it's like they're hitting a wall which leads to some pain . I got some toys that would stretch out my width to see if that would help somehow, but now i can just take some more width and am still stuck with the length issue.

I get that all guys are made differently, and that porn isn't reflective of real life, but so many guys I've seen in videos (professional or amateur) can take giant dicks, giant dildos, fists, sometimes arms almost elbow deep , so I figure there must be a way for me to at least be able to take a dick that's 7+ inches without feeling some discomfort. Any advice?

 

[regnomraw]

I have the same problem too. Maybe it's hitting the inner spincter? The only way to get past that I think is to take the toy but wait and let your body relax before going further - don't force it in. It might take a couple of practice runs to get used to it

 

[skoosh]

take your time...convince yourself that you can take it no problem and use plenty of lube.
if a dildo, slide it in as far as you can in comfort, then just chill...let it sit there, go online, search for something...anything...keep relaxed..every so often pump your ass with the dildo then let it be...sit down again whilst its still up you...and repeat the proccess.gradually your muscles will remember what you made them do and future dildoing or dick fucking will be more enjoyable......i wish you happy fucking.

 

[cdninweho]

Considering the rarity of dicks that are over 7" in real life, it isn't much of a problem in real life.

 

[dargelos]

Width is no problem, the sphincter will stretch a long way without permanent injury if it has to, even if it is begining to hurt. Length is different, by the time you get 7 inches up inside the bowel the tissue is getting very soft and easy to tear. You don't want to be in hospital with a ruptured bowel. So don't forget the advice to take it very slow and very gentle, you're not practising for a circus act.

 

[burstcrutch]

Thanks for the advice here. I have just met a new potential bf who wants to fuck me and I'm guessing that he's pretty big. I want it, but I want to avoid as much pain as possible. Slow and gentle with plenty of lube is how it's gonna be.

 

[joshydakid]

My favorite toy in the whole world is a Jeff Stryker dildo and its like 7.5-8 insertable. To get it in I bare down, like taking a dump, slide it in bounce a little then hit the backwall.. then bare down again, a little harder and it slides in to the balls.

 

[lhardwick69]

its all about trust--if your guy is huge tell him the idea of taking all of him inside you excites you but want to take it slow and if needed use a lot of lube but as for you you need to relax trust the guy and if he shows signs of going to be rough ram it in just let him know that it wont be tolerated--


but I got fucked by a guy with 11 inches I trusted him over time he fucked me many times just going in halfway but one night as he fucked me I was like mand squirt the lube into my hole and slide it in-it hurt like hell but once he was inside me I got used to it and it was awesome--- but I don't mind pain to a certain point so when he did that it was just enough pain to really make it fun--


lube trust relaxing is three key things no matter the size of the dick going inside you-- but tell him to lube it slide it in pump few times pull back out lube his dick good again see if the lube makes it better for you but there is no way to get out of all the pain--if he is huge its gonna hurt but hopefully in a enjoyable way not one that's gonna steer you away from him--big dicks don't make a better man but the man shouldn't do without fucking you just because he is big hehehe