On a scale of 1 to 10 how gay are you?

[peter123]

Don't forget we have many new members all the time so similar themes come around from time to time.
We can't sticky every topic, they get a bit stale like that

and from time to time it's useful to think about the same question again

 

[peter123]

I've voted 60-70% but that's just based on the selection of porn I've watched lately. I literally go from 20% to 80% depending on my mood. Sometimes a hot girl gives me a bomber, sometimes a cute hot guy. In either case, both groups find it a turn on I am just so horny some time, I'd be willing to bang anyone or anything that moved.

likely here concerning porn watching.....depending on my mood too..........so my vote likely....

 

[cban]

110% percent and climbing

 

[larrywar]

From what all my senses tell me, I am in the 100% group. And it feels like it has been that way as far back as I can remember.

 

[Rebel7]

I'd say 30% at most and i consider myself bi (it doesn't automatically have to be 50%, right?) In intimate, been with girls more (relationships and casual ones)...been with only 1 guy (one weekend stand).

But I'll leave the 30% figure behind as soon as i hit 'Submit Reply', cuz it coming from me head..as such lacks some depth.
The feeling department makes me more of hetero-flexible

 

[gigiaus]

maybe 9 out of 10

 

[AleXXX UK]

Mine does drift between 30-70% depending on my mood and what's available. That might because I'm very toppy anyway

 

[down_the_street]

Hmm. I looked at this and mentally adjusted for something like the Kinsey Scale.

I personally hover right in the middle, which is the worst of all worlds: Everyone looks attractive to me, but the gay men don't want to date me because they think I just won't come out, and straight women think bi guys are yucky.

(Of course, I'm in my mid 30s in a culturally conservative part of West Michigan, so ...)

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

I am married to my long time boyfriend and have been happy with him for 6 years, soon 7 so I'd say I am for him totally gay... but sometimes I do have fantasies about girls but when I look at him sleeping so tight knowing that I will be there the next morning to kiss him and rub his back in the shower, I forget about the boobs and focus on his balls LOL

 

[sendero]

Mine does drift between 30-70% depending on my mood and what's available. That might because I'm very toppy anyway

My score would drift also (as a bi-male), but over a longer time. Eighteen months ago, all I could think about was wrapping my mouth around a guy's pole. But more recently, I've developed a renewed interest in burying my head between a girl's legs.

I've always wondered why I shift like this. Is it the people I'm hanging out with? Is it some novel sexual stimulus that catches my attention and imagination? Is it changes in the way my brain puts together sexual fantasy? Do I grow bored with the type of porn I'm watching, and shift the other way? Am I somehow sub-consciously turned off by a sexual partner...or even an acquaintance? Or is it just some subtle shift in brain chemistry?

Who knows? But I'd hate to think that these cycles of my sexual identity are just random.

 

[AleXXX UK]

My score would drift also (as a bi-male), but over a longer time. Eighteen months ago, all I could think about was wrapping my mouth around a guy's pole. But more recently, I've developed a renewed interest in burying my head between a girl's legs.

I've always wondered why I shift like this. Is it the people I'm hanging out with? Is it some novel sexual stimulus that catches my attention and imagination? Is it changes in the way my brain puts together sexual fantasy? Do I grow bored with the type of porn I'm watching, and shift the other way? Am I somehow sub-consciously turned off by a sexual partner...or even an acquaintance? Or is it just some subtle shift in brain chemistry?

Who knows? But I'd hate to think that these cycles of my sexual identity are just random.

This is a very interesting exploration. My 'spread' shifts daily sometimes. There are about a dozen factors that interplay. Basically for me it's like one day I fancy chocolate flavour the next day I want strawberry flavour. I know when I get the look from a guy it turns me on and the same if I get it from a woman.

Generally im 50/50 however when I broke up with a girl a few years ago I know it shifted me away from women completely for a quite a while. I lost interest in her and all women. Never reacted that way with a guy. Two facts remain. I'm always horny and whether I'm feeling strawberry or chocolate 90% of the porn I watch is gay. In fact, porn, sex, love, relationships are all very disconnected for me so in reality if I had, say 10 different sexual measures, if be ranking very different scores in different areas at the same time. It's something I don't fully understand or have any care about, I'm very comfortable in my skin and at ease with my feelings. I like being able to enjoy the best of both worlds.

 

[Widd]

I voted 61 - 70% !
But in my head, I think I can be like 120% sometimes

 

[peter123]

Generally im 50/50 however when I broke up with a girl a few years ago I know it shifted me away from women completely for a quite a while. I lost interest in her and all women. Never reacted that way with a guy. Two facts remain. I'm always horny and whether I'm feeling strawberry or chocolate 90% of the porn I watch is gay. In fact, porn, sex, love, relationships are all very disconnected for me so in reality if I had, say 10 different sexual measures, if be ranking very different scores in different areas at the same time. It's something I don't fully understand or have any care about, I'm very comfortable in my skin and at ease with my feelings. I like being able to enjoy the best of both worlds.

:thumbs up::thumbs up:

 

[AleXXX UK]

:thumbs up::thumbs up:

Heh heh heh!

Sometimes, I just like to lay back, close my eyes and imagine im being serviced by Captain American, Thor, Brad or Angelina Joli, you name it!

I think people waste far too much time rationalising their feelings. Just enjoy what you enjoy and stop thinking about it.

 

[peter123]

Heh heh heh!

Sometimes, I just like to lay back, close my eyes and imagine im being serviced by Captain American, Thor, Brad or Angelina Joli, you name it!

I think people waste far too much time rationalising their feelings. Just enjoy what you enjoy and stop thinking about it.

You put it in words well^^:thumbs up:

 

[SophieSweets]

I'm 'Six of one, half dozen the other' as we say Daaahnn London

 

[AleXXX UK]

I'm 'Six of one, half dozen the other' as we say Daaahnn London

Translation: 50/50

So what exactly does that mean? Literally no preference? I'm in a zone that's 30-70 and depending on the weather, my mood, my whim, I tend to drift more towards one to the other. I know people who are more or less in one direction or another but no one who is 50/50 all the time. That I find hard to believe exists. No offence but can you elaborate on your feelings?

 

[SophieSweets]

Yep, 50/50
By that I mean that have no pre-existing preference (Literally ), I wouldn't specifically look for a Guy or a girl, it is entirely based on the person and the time...
I don't believe anyone conforms to anything 'all the time'...

 

[kidkyle]

I wish I had a meter that could change by the minute!

 

[KoenDB]

I took 51-60. I get easily aroused by girls, but notice that I tend to look at passing boys more often. Thought it would change after going from girlfriend to boyfriend, but nope.