pay for sex

[fanno1uk]

hi ,a few days ago i answered an add in craigless some man 19 selling himself ,we met in my car but i couldn't do any thing so i just gave him the money ,he of course was fine wit that but my conscience was bothering me then and now ,he was very sexy and i wud love to meet him again ,what do i do???? ,is paying for sex ok??? i ask u

 

[cacc]

Of course it's ok

 

[XMan101]

Of course it is! Many have done it and I don't go along with those hypocrites who are happy to pay for porn and not pay for a person.

If both sides are happy then it's fine

 

[redbones111]

...I don't go along with those hypocrites who are happy to pay for porn and not pay for a person...

I pay for neither.

That doesn't mean I automatically look down upon those who do. It's just something that I don't feel is worth paying for.

 

[puckinla]

I think if it's occasional, like,at most,four or five times a week!

 

[Cherylicious]

It's okay, but it could be a cop, you know? :devil:

 

[bigsal]

Since the dawn of time you pay for sex.

 

[XMan101]

My brother paid for sex in effect - all his wives have left him broke ) )

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

My brother paid for sex in effect - all his wives have left him broke ) )

So agree, no matter how, directly or indirectly we are all paying for sex.
When someone goes in a bar and meet that hot dude, the first thing that come to your mind will be to offer him a drink, then another and another, until he's cooked enough to accept to have sex with you. Then you may decide to go for a motel, hotel whatever your choice is and yes you'll end up paying the room. So one may not give money directly to the person you'll be having sex with, but it is clear that indirectly you have been paying for sex.

My dude lives in my house and on both side we pay to have sex with one another... we call those property taxes :rofl::rofl::rofl:

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

hi ,a few days ago i answered an add in craigless some man 19 selling himself ,we met in my car but i couldn't do any thing so i just gave him the money ,he of course was fine wit that but my conscience was bothering me then and now ,he was very sexy and i wud love to meet him again ,what do i do???? ,is paying for sex ok??? i ask u

Escort are used to that, just give him a call back and he might reduce the price for your next encounter. Of course, you may want to discuss with him first... because the counter starts when the escort is on site, the fact that you had sex or not has nothing to do with the payment. You pay by hours and not by the act... although there could be extra depending of what you asked. And of course he was hot the working tool of an escort is their body, so he has to polish and condition that tool just like one would wax their car to save it from rusting.

Next time you are calling an escort be sure to explain that it is your first time, explain also what you like and what you dislike. They are there for your pleasure, to the condition you pay their wages. :cheers:

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

It's okay, but it could be a cop, you know? :devil:

You'd be surprised to know that in my few years of doing escort I had pretty much 25 cops as CLIENT... being an escort is not illegal per se, it's tolerated. As an escort you're not roaming the street (that is illegal), you also apply the confidentiallity act, cops doesn't go arrest porn performers on movies and films and yet they are doing pretty much the same thing as any other prostitutes would do.

Pornography, the definition using etymology goes as follow: Pornography - Greek "Porno" = pornographos, "Porne" meant "prostitute", Graphy = GK - "Graphein" which means "to write". Therefore Pornography was simply the writing of dirty books.

So no, cops are not really a danger for escort, in fact you might want to befriend them so they assure your protection, even give them free blowjobs if they want to, trust me, when you call them for help, they'll be there for you.

 

[yoyo888]

I remember seeing a film called "Sééing Héavén", and they I think described a Rent Boy as "Selling Magic" to the customer. Well something like that anyway

 

[jeansGuyOZ]

I have never paid for, or accepted payment for, sex.

I do not love for silver
I do not love for gold
My love is mine to give away
It never will be sold

(Glen Yarborough - "Baby the Rain Must Fall")
Substitute "sex" for "love" in the above.

This is not because I have any moral objection to the concept, it's simply that for me it would feel wrong. For me a major component of the enjoment of sex is the knowledge that the other person is doing something for me because they want me to get pleasure. The knowledge that it was done for money, no matter how good the physical act was, would for me make the experience not much different from having a wank - and I can do that on my own, free of charge.

Likewise, if I am sexually attracted to another man, I want to have him for himself, not for his dollars.

This was brought home to me last week at the cruise club. A guy was in a room by himself and I was hanging around outside the room in case he decided to invite me in. By and by the door opened slightly, and he spoke very nervously, something like the following: "Excuse me mate, Can I ask you something.... this may sound strange....
If I offered you fifty bucks would you come in here and help me get off?"

Initially I was shocked. Not shocked at the concept, just shocked that it happened in that place. The club is generally understaood to be a place where you pay your standard entry fee, go in and cruise, and have sex with whoever you fancy and is willing to do so, for your mutual satisfaction, no payment involved. That's how I like it. I have my suspicions that from time to time prostitutes and their clients come there to use it as a cheap hotel room, but there isn't much you can do about that if the actual "dealing" takes place off the premises.

After I recovered my composure, I said "Sorry, I don't buy or sell". This was more or less an automatic reaction, but I was happy afterwards because I really do not want the place to get a reputation as a de facto brothel, I want it to remain what it is, a no strings cruise club.

The sad part is, the guy was quite young, he was by no means drop dead gorgeous but neither was he ugly, and I would have willingly gone with him for nothing. As far as I know he didn't try his luck with anyone else present, he left shortly afterwards.

All part of life's rich tapestry.

 

[lhardwick69]

paying for sex is prostituting--and in alot of states its against the l aw and countries as well--checks laws before doing it again just this time as least get to suck his dick and balls if he looked that sweet n h ot

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

paying for sex is prostituting--and in alot of states its against the l aw and countries as well--checks laws before doing it again just this time as least get to suck his dick and balls if he looked that sweet n h ot

You can check the law as much as you want, but you should also know that every laws has a loophole that will make escorting tolerated, because there's genuine escort agencies that advertize escort services, but do not advertize sex as the main services (but still available), dude I was in the business and never was I arrested or even approaches by cops to be arrested (unless they wanted my service). Unless you have been an escort I'd suggest you to get enough information before commenting, since YES escorting is prostitution, making porn movie is also prostitution, but you don't see any cops raiding all studios in the US to arrest the performers now did you? In all laws, there's loophole and escort is part of this loophole because I can escort my friend to a party, but that doesn't mean that I charged him. Law is a game of words, learn to play the lingo game and you'll certainly go free. When you go around fucking everyone, even though you don't get pay it is ALSO prostitution. Prostitution is not just the payment part, it's also a BEHAVIOR.

 

[c750dt]

Buying sex is akin to buying vodka. Both will fuck you up, both feel nice for a little bit, both can have negative repercussions, both can land you in jail, both are considered morally reprehensible by some and awesome by others.

Fortunately, for me, buying sex is not necessary though if I weren't a poor man, I might be open to the idea of buying time with someone more aesthetically appealing than one I'd get the sex free from. However, I'm a poor man and I'm a busy man so I buy vodka.

 

[brmstn69]

I would just like to add, that many escorts and even common "street walkers" know that often times their clients are lonely and not always looking for sex, just companionship or someone to talk to. Let's face it, escorts are cheaper than therapy...

If you want to see him again, go for it. An escort isn't going to turn a client down because he didn't want to have sex, and if you find that you do want to, then it's just business as usual...

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

I would just like to add, that many escorts and even common "street walkers" know that often times their clients are lonely and not always looking for sex, just companionship or someone to talk to. Let's face it, escorts are cheaper than therapy...

If you want to see him again, go for it. An escort isn't going to turn a client down because he didn't want to have sex, and if you find that you do want to, then it's just business as usual...

Right said Fred I can't count how many time I was called by clients who didn't have anybody for Christmas and New Years eve and just wanted to spend some times with someone, I'd even go as far as charging twice less and have a glass or three with him... indirectly I saved life... well I do have a background in psychology but that's beside the point LOL

 

[lhardwick69]

the post that was originally posted said a guy on graigs list will sell himself for sex--he agreed to meet him and pay this guy for sex--there isnt any loophole for that he says he was meeting the guy to pay him for sex--thats prostituting now if the guy had posted to meet the guy and "hang out" as an escort type thing then yes that will do but the guy posted he would sell himself

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

the post that was originally posted said a guy on graigs list will sell himself for sex--he agreed to meet him and pay this guy for sex--there isnt any loophole for that he says he was meeting the guy to pay him for sex--thats prostituting now if the guy had posted to meet the guy and "hang out" as an escort type thing then yes that will do but the guy posted he would sell himself

First question...you're a lawyer?
And here's another one... what one case out of a 1000
Third genuine escort who are professional will often have their own website, first timer/occasional escort will use newpaper ads, Craiglist.
As I told you get the right info dude. I wasn't only an escort I manage a float of them today and educated many of them regarding laws and security for themselve. And they are not just Canadian