for me the best thing about gayheaven is the sense of community and support, friendliness and acceptance.
i have been a member for a while, but more of a lurker than an active participant. (just here for the porn, but always saying thank you). i was hesitant to get to involved, mainly because of my observations of other 'similar' forums. i had witnessed 'approved' trolls denigrating and being just plain rude and offensive to other posters, while others would warned or banned for far less offensive things. (i hate to admit it but my reaction to those places was "what a cliquey, bitchy bunch of queens, sanctimonious, misogynistic... etc etc etc." i stopped posting on those places)
here at gayheaven its different. i see nothing but support and appreciation of other people. such a special thing.
my only regret is that it took me so long to start interacting, but now that i have started, i am happy to be a part of it all, and many more posts will follow.
so job very well done, not just to the mods/admins/owners, but to everyone
YOU ALL ROCK !!!