OK. I must admit to being shallow: the bulge. I see him from afar, I get an overall impression of hotness (or not), and then look at the bulge. Then the face, to check if my faraway impression was right. My finding men hot doesn't have to do with race, age, or fashion looks. There is just a whole package walking around, and I find him attractive. Maybe then the eyes, to look for SOME traces of intelligence. Then the hands. Then the feet. And then back to the bulge. Ass? Not really.