Dear Mum and Dad

[spacepirate]

My parents are really homophobic, they found once i did something with my roommate, it was hell week for me, they canceled my cellphone, took the car away and started shit at my school and family. Since then i been hiding it from them, honestly i dont care if they ever find out. only my friends know and i am happy with that , but i wished they werent homophobic..... every time we go out as a family and something gay is going on they bitch about it and start shit.....

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

On the issue of sex between men being "Unnatural"...
And excuse me for my bluntness, but those familiar with me here know that thoughtful, polite, eloquent replies are just not in my nature.

The human male body is designed for gay sex. If it wasn't, we would not have our G-spots up our asses...
Women don't have a prostate, they do anal because it's expected of the, not because they enjoy it. They may get pleasure form making their man happy, but they don't have anal orgasms...

The truth lies in human anatomy...

I asked the same question to god once... why if being gay and having anal sex bring the highest level of excitation for a man... why did he designed us with the g-point being in our asses and forbid us to even go there. Well I never got an answer so if the so called DESIGNER can't answer this simple question, neither can the simple human.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Is there much difference between the culture Anglo-Saxon and that Latin, especially for these things.

I'm near you

Neither my friend... because it's in fact all in your perceptions of how people would react... I fully understand you and Logan for having had issues to come out and god know I went through the same (even today I'm not out to everybody) as I said before if you see me and Alex in person and in public we're not walking hand to hand, we don't kiss in public, we barely touch one another in public and this is not because we're really scared of what people would think (because I'm one who can say easily and promptly to anyone from any social strata "go fuck your sorry self").in fact you two aren't scared of being gay since you did accepted that for yourself, you're scared of hurting the people you love and respect by telling them a secret that I'm pretty certain, few would not even be surprised when you'll open up to them.YOU are scared of loosing your family, You are scared of loosing your friends and that is the worst part of what many young gay have to go through.

Just imagine how bad am I for the society, I'm a two time daddy (three with Jasmine) been 6 years with the same dude, we live and sleep in the same bed and I have a big phat picture of Alex shirtless on my tablet PC I carry with me all the time. On the outside I seem like the normal dude taking care of their children until they came to my house where I'd French kiss Alex for 10 minutes right in front of them and I really don't care whether they approve or not.

Will come the day where you will have to take the biggest decision for yourself... piss off some of your relatives and face the music or live unhappy for the rest of your life, living two different life just to please a few. I don't know for you two but I choose ME and that wasn't a selfish decision.

 

[bigsal]

Neither my friend... because it's in fact all in your perceptions of how people would react... I fully understand you and Logan for having had issues to come out and god know I went through the same (even today I'm not out to everybody) as I said before if you see me and Alex in person and in public we're not walking hand to hand, we don't kiss in public, we barely touch one another in public and this is not because we're really scared of what people would think (because I'm one who can say easily and promptly to anyone from any social strata "go fuck your sorry self").in fact you two aren't scared of being gay since you did accepted that for yourself, you're scared of hurting the people you love and respect by telling them a secret that I'm pretty certain, few would not even be surprised when you'll open up to them.YOU are scared of loosing your family, You are scared of loosing your friends and that is the worst part of what many young gay have to go through.

Just imagine how bad am I for the society, I'm a two time daddy (three with Jasmine) been 6 years with the same dude, we live and sleep in the same bed and I have a big phat picture of Alex shirtless on my tablet PC I carry with me all the time. On the outside I seem like the normal dude taking care of their children until they came to my house where I'd French kiss Alex for 10 minutes right in front of them and I really don't care whether they approve or not.

Will come the day where you will have to take the biggest decision for yourself... piss off some of your relatives and face the music or live unhappy for the rest of your life, living two different life just to please a few. I don't know for you two but I choose ME and that wasn't a selfish decision.

Dear Jake,
You are absolutely right, we are on the same wavelength.
But one thing is virere in Canada (wonderful country and very open to diversity); something completely differentis living in Italy, country homophobic, fascist and secretly ruled by the Vatican.
The point is not to lose the affection of friends or relatives, is the existence or better survival.
If I lose my job and I do not find much, but wait what future? Are already advanced in years. Young people are struggling to find work, and those over 40 are cut off.
This is the depressing reality. I just try to limit the damage.
You have certainly a wonderful companion, three wonderful children, and this makes me happy, believe me I'm happy for you, through your posts, I hear them even mine, but if you lived in Italy, you would not have anything of all.
With esteem and affection.
bs

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Dear Jake,
You are absolutely right, we are on the same wavelength.
But one thing is virere in Canada (wonderful country and very open to diversity); something completely differentis living in Italy, country homophobic, fascist and secretly ruled by the Vatican.
The point is not to lose the affection of friends or relatives, is the existence or better survival.
If I lose my job and I do not find much, but wait what future? Are already advanced in years. Young people are struggling to find work, and those over 40 are cut off.
This is the depressing reality. I just try to limit the damage.
You have certainly a wonderful companion, three wonderful children, and this makes me happy, believe me I'm happy for you, through your posts, I hear them even mine, but if you lived in Italy, you would not have anything of all.
With esteem and affection.
bs

I hear you there BS Alex and I visited Italy 3 years ago and trust me that's the last time we take an hotel room with only one bed in a Sicilian hotel, there was no girls with us and yes we kind of have sex and Alex is like a very vocal dude (if it excite porn viewers to have a vocal dude when having sex it did pretty much the opposite over there)... what followed the next day, forced us to leave and set our vacation in Grenoble, France instead. We were pointed at, and the rumor (of us being gay spread like powder, and I believed that Italy had outgrown the Mussolini era regarding blacks and gays, but hell no they sure didn't). Yes I know to be lucky to live in Canada and for having traveled quite a lot in my youth and with Alex, we know that it's very home sweet home in our beaver land. In fact we have learned now to check and analyze the area before having sex in a stranger country. Alex is so loud we need to take precautions

 

[bigsal]

I hear you there BS Alex and I visited Italy 3 years ago and trust me that's the last time we take an hotel room with only one bed in a Sicilian hotel, there was no girls with us and yes we kind of have sex and Alex is like a very vocal dude (if it excite porn viewers to have a vocal dude when having sex it did pretty much the opposite over there)... what followed the next day, forced us to leave and set our vacation in Grenoble, France instead. We were pointed at, and the rumor (of us being gay spread like powder, and I believed that Italy had outgrown the Mussolini era regarding blacks and gays, but hell no they sure didn't). Yes I know to be lucky to live in Canada and for having traveled quite a lot in my youth and with Alex, we know that it's very home sweet home in our beaver land. In fact we have learned now to check and analyze the area before having sex in a stranger country. Alex is so loud we need to take precautions

Forse posso apparire assolutamente critico e negativo verso la mia nazione, ma non è così.
A parte la maggioranza degli italiani e i politici, amo il mio paese.
Ottimo clima, ottima cucina, ottimi qualità di cibi e vini, arte, storia, cultura, architettura ecc. ecc..
Ogni regione italiana ha caratteristiche paesaggistiche e turistiche splendide, e tutte differenti l’una dall’altra.
In estate è possibile praticare lo sci al mattino e finito di sciare, dopo poco più di due ore, raggiungere una località balneare e fare un tuffo in mare.
Comunque non preoccuparti, se decidessi di voler tornare in Italia, sei mio ospite, bambini compresi.

 

[bigsal]

Forse posso apparire assolutamente critico e negativo verso la mia nazione, ma non è così.
A parte la maggioranza degli italiani e i politici, amo il mio paese.
Ottimo clima, ottima cucina, ottimi qualità di cibi e vini, arte, storia, cultura, architettura ecc. ecc..
Ogni regione italiana ha caratteristiche paesaggistiche e turistiche splendide, e tutte differenti l’una dall’altra.
In estate è possibile praticare lo sci al mattino e finito di sciare, dopo poco più di due ore, raggiungere una località balneare e fare un tuffo in mare.
Comunque non preoccuparti, se decidessi di voler tornare in Italia, sei mio ospite, bambini compresi.

Sorry for error.

Maybe I can look absolutely critical and negative towards my country, but it does not.

Apart from the majority of Italians and politicians, I love my country.

Great atmosphere, good food, good quality food and wines, art, history, culture, architecture, etc.. etc. ..

Every Italian region has beautiful landscape and tourist features, and all different from each other.

In summer you can go skiing in the morning and finished skiing, after just over two hours, reaching a seaside resort and take a dip in the sea.

However do not worry, if you decide you want to return to Italy, you are my guest, including children.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Forse posso apparire assolutamente critico e negativo verso la mia nazione, ma non è così.
A parte la maggioranza degli italiani e i politici, amo il mio paese.
Ottimo clima, ottima cucina, ottimi qualità di cibi e vini, arte, storia, cultura, architettura ecc. ecc..
Ogni regione italiana ha caratteristiche paesaggistiche e turistiche splendide, e tutte differenti l’una dall’altra.
In estate è possibile praticare lo sci al mattino e finito di sciare, dopo poco più di due ore, raggiungere una località balneare e fare un tuffo in mare.
Comunque non preoccuparti, se decidessi di voler tornare in Italia, sei mio ospite, bambini compresi.

You know I speaks Spanish? LOL I also understand Italian you pretty much didn't have to translate LOL - for for the sake of others yes LOL. I speak 5 languages and Italian is one of them, Spanish, French, English, Haitian Creole and Portuguese. Well that's 6 but Haitian creole although considered a language isn't one from my perspective Why do you think my dad bring me along when I was a kid, he only speaks French, I was able to grasp language at a speed of light That's my best skills beside sex :rofl: And I don't hate Italy, I actually loved it there, but I can't just sleep by Alex and not having the urge to have sex with him and he can't tone it down LOL and I don't want him to because his moaning excite me 10 folds.

 

[bigsal]

You know I speaks Spanish? LOL I also understand Italian you pretty much didn't have to translate LOL - for for the sake of others yes LOL. I speak 5 languages and Italian is one of them, Spanish, French, English, Haitian Creole and Portuguese. Well that's 6 but Haitian creole although considered a language isn't one from my perspective Why do you think my dad bring me along when I was a kid, he only speaks French, I was able to grasp language at a speed of light That's my best skills beside sex :rofl: And I don't hate Italy, I actually loved it there, but I can't just sleep by Alex and not having the urge to have sex with him and he can't tone it down LOL and I don't want him to because his moaning excite me 10 folds.

Sorry for error.

Maybe I can look absolutely critical and negative towards my country, but it does not.

Apart from the majority of Italians and politicians, I love my country.

Great atmosphere, good food, good quality food and wines, art, history, culture, architecture, etc.. etc. ..

Every Italian region has beautiful landscape and tourist features, and all different from each other.

In summer you can go skiing in the morning and finished skiing, after just over two hours, reaching a seaside resort and take a dip in the sea.

However do not worry, if you decide you want to return to Italy, you are my guest, including children.

(just look at the post immediately following)