Do you ever foresee parenthood in you life

[Otage]

Oh come on, look how happy elton John and David furnish are with Zac.

They're only smiling because of the cameras:rofl:

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Would be my nightmare to have kids. I can't stand kids, kittens, puppies or that other "cute" crap. And of course when raising them... has nothing to do with the fact that are they cute/fun/greatest-experience-of-your-life or not. Ball and chain. And the high pitched voices of children... gives me the chills. Love horror movies and stuff, but children... there's somenthing very very very evil about them

Just remember you were one once in your life, your parents have heard you screaming at 2 in the morning, spend at least two or three years wiping your dirty ass, worked boring job to make sure you missed nothing. Kids aren't for everyone and it's good that you understand that you're not interested to have kids, however for the sake of those who love them, those who's kids have made a difference in their life, those who have contributed to the social lining, kids aren't naturally (for the most) evil, they are the reflect of their upbringing, their environment and their parents. They are not evil my friend... society is!:cheers: I have three of them and they're far from resembling the description of what you believe kids are.

 

[lhardwick69]

I love kids but to have one of my own no way my dick isn't going nowhere near a cunt--as for adopting I would love to adopt one

 

[c750dt]

Don't even know how it happened but I'm a mom with a station wagon that regularly carries two kids. Headaches happen but I love it. When the kids have their homework done and the laundry's done and I can finally lay down, I fucking love what eventually greets me coming in the door.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Don't even know how it happened but I'm a mom with a station wagon that regularly carries two kids. Headaches happen but I love it. When the kids have their homework done and the laundry's done and I can finally lay down, I fucking love what eventually greets me coming in the door.

Now talking like a real parent... I share that part... although Alex his the mom :rofl: he's a stay at home daddy, so I get home and i'm welcome by a Magnificient Surfer Dude turned into a housewife/boy lol, a 17 years old teenager girl and 2 or three of her friends lol, a 11 years old hyperactive boy and his best friend and a 1 year old screaming like crazy because daddy Alex doesn't carry her as he always do (which I told him so many fucking time to stop doing that, or she'll be spoiled to death).

No matter how tired i come home... I leave the office cemetery to come to the livings at home.

 

[Tjerk12]

I was married for twenty years and that marriage resulted in three kids, one girl and two boys. Perhaps this sentence is grammatically not quite right, but I am trying to say I do not have three children. Biologically they are mine, but I never had the idea that I possessed them. I had the happy cirstance that I was able to share my life with three beautiful children. But they own their own life. It was my task to learn them things; to support them; to protect them; give them unconditional love and give them the freedom and responsibility (and my acceptation) to make their own choices.
They are all grown up now and all are happy and independent young adults. When I look back I must say it was a marvelous task to fulfill. Not an easy task, because after my divorce I had to do the job alone, because my ex-wife sought her happiness elsewhere, without the kids.

 

[AleXXX UK]

I'm in such a broody moody today.

I'd love to come home to a little fella who'd say daddy I love you and give me a big hug.

 

[AleXXX UK]

Now talking like a real parent... I share that part... although Alex his the mom :rofl: he's a stay at home daddy, so I get home and i'm welcome by a Magnificient Surfer Dude turned into a housewife/boy lol, a 17 years old teenager girl and 2 or three of her friends lol, a 11 years old hyperactive boy and his best friend and a 1 year old screaming like crazy because daddy Alex doesn't carry her as he always do (which I told him so many fucking time to stop doing that, or she'll be spoiled to death).

No matter how tired i come home... I leave the office cemetery to come to the livings at home.

Let me know when your cat goes to school and bakes you a cookie.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Let me know when your cat goes to school and bakes you a cookie.

Got three children, three dogs, a husband and a boyfriend all under the same roof (oh and my best friend too which is the mother of the latest child) but NO DARN cats... sorry for all the cat lovers but I'm highly allergic to them and to my great pleasure I have none and find them boring, but I wouldn't mind a bigger cat such a tiger but the common house cat... hell no. We have enough of the stray cats that Alex kept on feeding... don't mind that as long they stay outside. So no cats baking cookies ever in my house lol.

The last time my boy and my daughter got in the kitchen together it was for the day after Alex and I got married, we had to call cleaning service so much they messed up our kitchen LOL... but the thought was there... but as of now we got them both to learn how to cook... Alex is in charge of teaching them the basics... such as: don't leave the kitchen to go watch Big Bang Theory when there's water boiling at HIGH density LOL. But I still get nervous when I see those two lurking around the kitchen in search of something to eat... we fixed that by making as much food as we can during the weekend so they don't have the great idea of doing it themselves hahahaha!

And the other one we don't wanna see lurking around our kitchen is Liam, he's basically a year and half older than my daughter and just like many of the new kids of this era he learned to cook with mother Microwave lol.

 

[AleXXX UK]

Got three children, three dogs, a husband and a boyfriend all under the same roof (oh and my best friend too which is the mother of the latest child) but NO DARN cats... sorry for all the cat lovers but I'm highly allergic to them and to my great pleasure I have none and find them boring, but I wouldn't mind a bigger cat such a tiger but the common house cat... hell no. We have enough of the stray cats that Alex kept on feeding... don't mind that as long they stay outside. So no cats baking cookies ever in my house lol.

The last time my boy and my daughter got in the kitchen together it was for the day after Alex and I got married, we had to call cleaning service so much they messed up our kitchen LOL... but the thought was there... but as of now we got them both to learn how to cook... Alex is in charge of teaching them the basics... such as: don't leave the kitchen to go watch Big Bang Theory when there's water boiling at HIGH density LOL. But I still get nervous when I see those two lurking around the kitchen in search of something to eat... we fixed that by making as much food as we can during the weekend so they don't have the great idea of doing it themselves hahahaha!

And the other one we don't wanna see lurking around our kitchen is Liam, he's basically a year and half older than my daughter and just like many of the new kids of this era he learned to cook with mother Microwave lol.

Oh I'm so sorry! Alex is your husband. I thought you were making fun by having a fantasy of me. Big hug:big hug:

And to all those people who find your set up wrong, I say kids need love and support above everything else and I'm sure yours get that from you.

If straight people have a problem with gays being parents then maybe they should stop having gay babies themselves first.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Oh I'm so sorry! Alex is your husband. I thought you were making fun by having a fantasy of me. Big hug:big hug:

And to all those people who find your set up wrong, I say kids need love and support above everything else and I'm sure yours get that from you.

If straight people have a problem with gays being parents then maybe they should stop having gay babies themselves first.

hahahahahaha Just wait when Alex read that LOL. Yes my husband is named Alexander (hence Alex) i'm sure you'd make a good husband too, but one bitch at a time hahaha... well that's not true Liam is our boyfriend... but he has his own room (I don't really know why he has his own room since he never sleep there LOL)

Actually the 17 and 11 years old are my biological children, I made them myself:rofl: The last one was an arrangement with my best friend to go through artificial insemination using Alex' sperm, so she his also my daughter but she comes from my babe's mixture.

My setting isn't weird at all according to me, I'm a dad and so is Alex and we take care of our children, we love each other the same way any straight couples would (the only difference) is that I don't need to go to an extend of buying flowers to make Alex understand that I want to have sex, and he doesn't use that catching phrase " not tonight honey I have a headache" we both understand that the best way of getting rid of a headache is to fuck like rabbit:rofl: and we have our third wheel Liam that is more Alex's boy toy... but I too get a slice of his pie (and what a beautiful pie he is LOL)

So people can say whatever they want about our setting... what makes them talk so much is that we don't care about their judgement and we have a healthy living, it's family, it's friendly and it's pure love. I married him to prove that I loved him enough to go against my own belief regarding marriage and religious crap... And Alex is the happiest 26 years old gay blond dude ever... and seeing him so relax and so happy makes me the happiest too... he had it so rough he deserved a break.

 

[c750dt]

Yes, I see parenthood. My typical day involves lots of laundry followed by helping kids on homework. Anytime we shop, I'm going over how decision will tie in to the kids. They have had an odd past and getting them in place and caught up in school is 24/7 job.

 

[AleXXX UK]

I grew up with two brothers and a sister and we played video games together, celebrated each others birthdays, had fights, rows, good times, bad times, Christmases together. The highlight of my childhood were my siblings. I too wanna have lots of kids and a big family. I just need to find mr perfect, miss perfect and buy a big house for all of us.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

I grew up with two brothers and a sister and we played video games together, celebrated each others birthdays, had fights, rows, good times, bad times, Christmases together. The highlight of my childhood were my siblings. I too wanna have lots of kids and a big family. I just need to find mr perfect, miss perfect and buy a big house for all of us.

If you're looking for perfection you'll never find neither of them:rofl: Search instead for Mr. and/or Miss "OKAY" and they'll become "Perfect for you"

 

[Rebel7]

This coming from a guy who now and then thinking what name to give his kids: definitely would like to have kids (preferably 2 of them and biological)..need to find the person who can handle and cope with this big kid (that is me )...or i wait till i hit 40 to make my ex-gf 'prediction' come true:rofl:

 

[AleXXX UK]

When you get to your thirties you pretty much already know whether definitely want to have kids or definitely don't. Most of us won't accidentally find out we've become fathers after a fling or not taking precautions so it would have to be a very deliberate move to want to have kids one starting with finding a suitable mother. It's like it's all very well wanting to have kids but which woman would choose to do that and why. I think that added complexity would put many guys off. I bet if there was a very easy option most guys here would jump at the chance of being dads.

 

[c750dt]

I fell for a man before I even knew he had a boy and girl in elementary school. I love taking care of them. They give me headaches and create some work for me but that's nothing compared to the joy and meaning they contribute to my life. They rock and I feel horrible whenever I have to yell at them. I love seeing them get A's on their homework and classwork and whenever I have time to play with them, they crack me up. Being a parent is hard and taxing but it's well above 100% beyond worth it.

A boy and girl, ring on my finger, awesome hubby, house in the burbs, SUV, little chihuahua, life's cool!