so i'm a lil curious to know how some guys prepare for sex. what do tops do? what to bottoms do? do you prepare for spontaneous events? i've heard so many stories from friends that say they just shower to douching to even fasting (i was like, really? apparently they want to look thinner and clean down there...go figure i like food too much lol)
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How do guys prepare for sex?
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HotDougBunz
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Checking in as a dominate top, I want to be clean so of course a shower would be in order. Man-scent is nice but rank is not appealing in the least to me.
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Speaking as an older gentleman, my first action would be to withdraw cash.
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there is no special preparation for a top. just shower. and i personally like when a guy doesnt use cologne or deo before sex. i wanna taste that guy and not "Hugo Boss" or "David Beckham" or such.
for bottoming is need to have asshole clean. various goods you can buy in sexshops. best are these what you can connect with shower batery. easy rule- if u want perfect cleaness use lot of water! and repeat this process few times. until youllbe sure its ok
btw. admins.dont you want to make this thread sticky? its quite frequent question here
for bottoming is need to have asshole clean. various goods you can buy in sexshops. best are these what you can connect with shower batery. easy rule- if u want perfect cleaness use lot of water! and repeat this process few times. until youllbe sure its ok
btw. admins.dont you want to make this thread sticky? its quite frequent question here
@Sinnerr isn't it unhealthy for a bottom to do that too much? it can dry the boy out! lol
i personally don't mind a mutual shower/foreplay action in the tub
he clean, i'm clean, we all clean...until we finish and then have to head back into the shower...together :rofl: rinse and repeat hehes
i personally don't mind a mutual shower/foreplay action in the tub
he clean, i'm clean, we all clean...until we finish and then have to head back into the shower...together :rofl: rinse and repeat hehes
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@Sinnerr isn't it unhealthy for a bottom to do that too much? it can dry the boy out! lol
i personally don't mind a mutual shower/foreplay action in the tub
well. its my personal wiew. some other may have lesser requirements. for anal fuck isnt perfect cleaness necessary. but what if Ill get idea to rim you during foreplay??
anyway. i do it as well when im bottoming and have no problem with.
and of course LUBE rather bit more than less. its good to use special plastic jizzers which looks a bit like injections. they comfortly gets load of lube into your anus. you can easily buy them in sex shop
true everyone has their own preferences. this is why i asked this question lol though it sucks for those who wants to be spontaneous because the bottom doesn't have the time to prep. can you imagine if the top or the bottom is really anal (no pun intended lol) about complete cleanliness?
top: i'm so hard right now
bottom: can you hold that erection for like 30 minutes? brb
or
bottom: do you want to...you know *wink wink*
top: mmm, yes!...but did you empty that love canal?
:rofl:
this is why i asked this question lol though it sucks for those who wants to be spontaneous because the bottom doesn't have the time to prep. can you imagine if the top or the bottom is really anal (no pun intended lol) about complete cleanliness? top: i'm so hard right now
bottom: can you hold that erection for like 30 minutes? brb
or
bottom: do you want to...you know *wink wink*
top: mmm, yes!...but did you empty that love canal?
:rofl:
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lol. you are right. thats why im willing to do only blow and hand jobs spontageously. anal fuck isnt essetial need. but enema doesnt take 30 minutes. Id say 10 at most.
and there is no problem to pass him glass of wine or such and say take seat, relax I will be back in a moment. of course you should be fast cos if you wouldnt you could find your buddy sleeping already.
and there is no problem to pass him glass of wine or such and say take seat, relax I will be back in a moment. of course you should be fast cos if you wouldnt you could find your buddy sleeping already.
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10 minutes? :\ iono if that would be long enough to feel clean...but if i was horny, then i can't say i wouldn't be rushing in that process lol
but what do guys do who go to the club and party around? you might not be expecting to have a random hook up. do bottoms prepare beforehand just in case?
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but what do guys do who go to the club and party around? you might not be expecting to have a random hook up. do bottoms prepare beforehand just in case?
Some do. Some not - they nevermind dirtyness.
I personally cant stand dirtyness...
But do what you think is the best for you and your fucker.
And maybe have with you pack of wet wipes
Some do. Some not - they nevermind dirtyness.
I personally cant stand dirtyness...
But do what you think is the best for you and your fucker.
And maybe have with you pack of wet wipes
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If a top can't hold an erection for 30 minutes, then he's not worth doing.
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i'm a bottom so my preparation is to put a shirt on with the saying "insert penis here" with arrow button pointing down to my ass--hehehe
take a shower dress up casually for the plans at hand whether it be dinner and a movie or whatever--then sex happens just go with the flow--proper cleaning and I don't mean enimas and stuff I mean just shower wash cock balls and ass--
if you have problems with the asshole area like bowel movements and stuff just let the guy you are with know--I never used an enima and never will and I never gotten shit on a guys dick ---it happens if so remember its an asshole it has shit so far inside --
enjoy
take a shower dress up casually for the plans at hand whether it be dinner and a movie or whatever--then sex happens just go with the flow--proper cleaning and I don't mean enimas and stuff I mean just shower wash cock balls and ass--
if you have problems with the asshole area like bowel movements and stuff just let the guy you are with know--I never used an enima and never will and I never gotten shit on a guys dick ---it happens if so remember its an asshole it has shit so far inside --
enjoy
Gotta agree here - I'm vers, and as much as I do love rimming/fucking a sparkling clean ass, I don't actually expect dudes to go through so much (as frequent enemas *are* unhealthy). I do my best to be clean as well, and if I have any doubts, hands and mouths are fun too!
