lhardwick69
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there will always be a place in your heart and his for years--I think of guys I been with even back in high school days--if you love him and he says its over respect his wishes and let it go--
you say its where you disagreed with him wanting to better himself in his career and that you dreamed of waking up together going to work then coming home together same time and so on--that's a fantasy world one hell of a fantasy at best--
guys where I work at are married one works nightshift while their wives work a job elsewhere dayshift so time together isn't much but it takes money to live--food roof over your head electricity water and then money for entertainment like cable internet videogames--
but the time they spend together is more worthwhile spent because the time isn't as much as like--sure it puts a strain on a relationship but if you love each other as say do you work it out and deal with it..now if you got a job making money to support you and him where he is home all time and home when you get home from work then that be ok..but then again ii wouldn't want to support a man even if I loved him
but love doesn't die overnight--I think -let me know if I am right about this--or wrong--but I think theres more to this than him bettering himself in his creer that ended it--its either youre a drama queen make a huge deal over everything throw shit and think everything should be your way and when he said this about a career you blew up as usual and expect him to take it and he isn't--he just tired of it all and tired of the drama--I know where he is coming from there--I lost stuff I paid for over an ex temper tantrums and I got tired of it even broke up with him at his house so it be his shit he threw not mine
I dated a guy that told me what I was going to watch --listen to --no videogames--what music I listented to was going to be on headphones but I had to listen to his shit--I told him bye--he wanted to work things out but I told him if that's how he thinks now then he will never change--
but hope didn't say anything wrong about drama queen --but I dated a couple and when I see a guy and realize heis a drama queen I steer clear--I want someone I can love not someone to bitch and throw shit in anger
you say its where you disagreed with him wanting to better himself in his career and that you dreamed of waking up together going to work then coming home together same time and so on--that's a fantasy world one hell of a fantasy at best--
guys where I work at are married one works nightshift while their wives work a job elsewhere dayshift so time together isn't much but it takes money to live--food roof over your head electricity water and then money for entertainment like cable internet videogames--
but the time they spend together is more worthwhile spent because the time isn't as much as like--sure it puts a strain on a relationship but if you love each other as say do you work it out and deal with it..now if you got a job making money to support you and him where he is home all time and home when you get home from work then that be ok..but then again ii wouldn't want to support a man even if I loved him
but love doesn't die overnight--I think -let me know if I am right about this--or wrong--but I think theres more to this than him bettering himself in his creer that ended it--its either youre a drama queen make a huge deal over everything throw shit and think everything should be your way and when he said this about a career you blew up as usual and expect him to take it and he isn't--he just tired of it all and tired of the drama--I know where he is coming from there--I lost stuff I paid for over an ex temper tantrums and I got tired of it even broke up with him at his house so it be his shit he threw not mine
I dated a guy that told me what I was going to watch --listen to --no videogames--what music I listented to was going to be on headphones but I had to listen to his shit--I told him bye--he wanted to work things out but I told him if that's how he thinks now then he will never change--
but hope didn't say anything wrong about drama queen --but I dated a couple and when I see a guy and realize heis a drama queen I steer clear--I want someone I can love not someone to bitch and throw shit in anger