Need some advice...

[ihno]

Yepp, you will only get over it if you give up the contact.

 

[lskyus]

Well it would appear he is now avoiding me...

 

[ihno]

That's the best thing that can happen to you but how do you know that so shortly after?

 

[lskyus]

He stopped texting and has cancelled our meeting tonight

 

[ihno]

Ok. Just don't call him or something like that. Treat it like it's over though you should not be surprised if he stands before your door in two weeks.

 

[lskyus]

Ok. Just don't call him or something like that. Treat it like it's over though you should not be surprised if he stands before your door in two weeks.

Okay, thank you, i would rather he didn't, i don't think i could go through that again...

 

[ihno]

I didn't mean to give you hope or something and I would not say you should let him in, it's just what those guys normally do.

My first and big love was a bit like that too. It was similar but different as well. My guy always said to others that he has a relationship with me, but if I said that, he said "no, we don't". After I kicked him out because I was too fed up with his "I don't love you" babble I received whiney "I miss you" letters. And also another "straight" guy, who used to stand before my door.

 

[lskyus]

I didn't mean to give you hope or something and I would not say you should let him in, it's just what those guys normally do.

My first and big love was a bit like that too. It was similar but different as well. My guy always said to others that he has a relationship with me, but if I said that, he said "no, we don't". After I kicked him out because I was too fed up with his "I don't love you" babble I received whiney "I miss you" letters. And also another "straight" guy, who used to stand before my door.

and that is what i get, but its just my imagination apparently...

 

[ihno]

Keep us informed.

 

[lskyus]

A big hug:thumbs up:

 

[lskyus]

He came round this evening, didn't even bother to ask how i was, he says he still wants to be friends. I said i need some time to put my head back together, but i think we would be better off not spending any time together. He said i don't need to fear him.

He also asked me to not say anything to his gf, now what bothers me about that is, he clearly doesn't trust me. I could see it in his eyes.

That of all hurts the most.

 

[ihno]

Get him drunk, lol.

 

[lskyus]

Get him drunk, lol.

You know you say that, i had that opportunity before we went our sep ways he stayed over, i stroked his hair, he said that was nice and i then realised this was a bad idea. We were both drunk and i unfortunately couldn't do that to him.

I really wanted it, but i loved him and i couldn't do that to him.

(dont laugh)

 

[tuneart]

maybe he is not comfortable with his sexuality yet. give it time, and perhaps he will come to term with it... the question would be whether or not you want wait around....