Although we may think we know all about the lives of famous celebrities, just because of what we see and read about them, only a few close friends really know what's going on with anybodys life. There may be things about Anthony and Kate that are private and that we the public will never know. Some things that even the coroner might never be told about.
It's easy for me to say don't make assumptions, I've been saying that to my boyfriend for more years than either of us would care to remember, he's probably got the message by now, being still alive and all that.
The fact that you, josh, can write as openly as you do, looks to me to be a positve sign. It's always better to talk. The time to worry is when someone cannot talk about what's on their mind