The Joy Of Gay Sex Third Edition
This is available as a free download, thanks and thanks again to defiance0
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I first read this as a hand me down first edition, the world has changed a lot since then. It is interesting to compare the old and new versions. Some paragraphs have not changed at all, others are completly changed. I cannot reccomend that anyone read the first edit today, it was written before the gay mens health crisis, in some ways it describes life on another planet, it was a world so different before that bastard virus came along and spoiled everything. The newer edit swings if anything too far the other way, the safe sex advice is so very cautious that some younger readers might think the writer is crying wolf. If you'd lived through what he lived through, you'd be extra cautious too.
The book is presented in an easy to read format, even if you don't like books you will find this a painless way to pick up a few tips and ideas, why not take a look.