There is a pecking-order of countries too. To use one of your terms let's call the US an 'elite' country. The US can resort to all manner of violence to exert its will on a weaker opponent. The smaller or weaker the opponent, the more severe the consequences tend to be. The rulers of a country may choose to 'sell out' to a more powerful country, or, they may, for a range of reasons, resist. If they resist, they risk being removed because typically the US will seek regime-change.
So we should give due regard to nationality in a world that is, after all, composed of nation-states. There is also the matter of how the US gains support. Also, the ability of the US to form coalitions does not automatically imply that it is in the right. You have to look at it's track record for violence, spying, covert-actions, etc. It may acquire support for all the wrong reasons.
You now seem to want to remove or at least dilute US responsibility for eg its own war-crimes, by speaking vaguely about some global or near-global shadowy elite. Sorry but that's a load of bunkum. When a country commits heinous war-crimes, it must own up and take responsibility for actions.
So for example when the US Army fired hundreds of thousands of depleted-uranium rounds in Iraq, causing sickness, genetic mutations, and horrific human suffering, it is responsible. Period.
If you want to do something positive then you could email your elected officials and ask that they push for specific laws to be passed forbidding the use of depleted-uranium rounds.