How do guys prepare for sex?

[naughty_gam]

Take lots of fibre (e.g. chia, flaxeed, psyllium) with each meal. They'll help ensure elimination is more complete with far fewer "messy bits" left. The market is such that to plug the gap of those who are worried about keeping their runway clear, there're fibre supplements specifically to help address this situation.

Douching or enemas are still needed, but without fibre, there's chances there's something further up the plumbing that'll come down with stimulating activity. Fibre helps sweep out more of the debris in one go, leaving far less mess for nasty surprises!

 

[Curiousnomore]

Full shower, enema , poppers butt plug to loosen up

 

[kwhotboi]

Full shower, enema , poppers butt plug to loosen up

Looks like you are getting the right idea. Have fun

 

[pineapple]

Just a shower acutally.

 

[Lookingformydaddy]

Douching is definitely not healthy too often, but if you do do it I think it's recommended you just use lukewarm water. But fibre really is key!

 

[kwhotboi]

I take an Imodium AD and Metamucil every day so a quick short douche is all I need to be ready. I pre-lube with a dildo and silicone lube so the first dick can slide right in.

 

[Stonecold]

I think I am glad my sexually active days with strangers and many partners took place in a time when all you needed was a bottle of rush and a big can of crisco. I sure admire and respect people today making sure things go smoothly.

 

[kwhotboi]

As a teen I was known as the Crisco Kid because I always had a can under my bed it was my favorite lube. I still use it today sometimes or vaseline.

 

[tomaz4]

Shower my body, cleaning precisely an ass, lubricant sometimes is needed

 

[lhardwick69]

things happen--growing up you do things from sucking cock rimming assholes swallowing loads and get fucked and whats funny them days youre like nothing is prepped it just happens..if a top slides his dick into an eager bottom theres a 50 /50 chance he will get shit on his dick..i was fucked numerous times never got shit on any guys dick--but I heard few friends did get shit on their dick---I asked what did you do--they were like cleaned up let the bottom go shit clean up aand slammed it back in..


so as people get older they read up on oh I need to douche or do a enema before getting fucked its just nasty if don't--I am 48 now never got shit on anyones dick --all but one that was at a yng age and I told him no I had use the bathroom first---he called me a chicken thinking I was a chicken not to let him slide his dick inside me--so I was like ok you get shit on your dick don't bitch---he gets in pumps few times next we smell shit--I was like told you---we laughed he pulled out shit all over his dick we went to bathroom he cleaned up his dick I sit took a crap wiped my ass and then I said now you can fuck me and he did--


people need to realize one--its an asshole shit happens--sometimes guys in 2 minutes some in 30 minutes to longer---one guy I knew came before he got his clothes off--so I do love spontaneous sex--nothing better than rimming a nice asshole with natural taste and not taste like soap--I had my mouth washed out with soap a lot as a k id--so nothing worse than anything tasting like soap--

its cool to do things like take a fiber to keep shit solid and no to oist I have rimmed guys and my tongue felt a turd --they apologize I be like hey its an asshole shit happens..i heard one guy beat the hell out of a guy for getting shit on his dick---thats bullshit--clean up and dive back in..

 

[Shelter]

Hello Ihardwick69 - so very often I'll understand you and respect your opinion to this or that topic here. But here I cannot follow you. You know I'm a 100% bottom too and not since yesterday but now since 14 years. I think I can say I'm an experienced bottom too.

So when I got my first fuck (with 17) my boyfriend asked me at first to use an anal douche. I've never before worked with such a thing. So he did it for me - and well, let me tell you - it was not very erotic but more clinical. He did it two or three times, than he cleaned my anal cleft with only warm water and than we started. And there was no shit on his cock.

Since than every evening I'll do that - it is for me like teethbrushing. I really want to be clean if my BF will top me and that to every time. You don't need to take soap to clean your anal cleft - warm water and a soft cloth will do it. And never ever I will have the sorrow that his cock will be blotched with shit or particles of shit.

 

[lhardwick69]

the comment made about soap was one I made in a joking manor--as for your douching daily and so on thats fine--I never did it and never got shit on any tops that fucked me dick--it has to do with eating the right amount of fiber keeping your shit at a certain texture--and no moist-------so you do whatever want but as for the guys that don't want to douche and stuff that enough it untouched and natural we have the right to do so--as for doing it daily--umm.you do it not long before having sex---tooo long and your body is producing shit to fill up0 where you douched

 

[ClosetBi]

As a bottom I like to be and feel clean.
So, apart from the obvious shower I like to clean myself inside out.
Had a hard time with enemas. I noticed that if I washed deep the process was almost endless. The more you washed the worse it got, plus it made my tummy ache in the end.

I finally found a good tutorial on YouTube explaining how to correctly prepare for anal sex. It's made by a German dude, it's very articulate and precise and explains how and why to perform the task a certain way.

From that day on my preparations went smoothly and it takes me just a fraction of the time it took me before.

 

[kwhotboi]

Do you have a link to that Youtube video?

 

[ClosetBi]

Found it!

Do you have a link to that Youtube video?

Sorry, wasn't YouTube... took me some digging but I found it

Anon URL

 

[phxwilly]

Wow, the science of doing a pre-fuck douche. What's weird to me is that I never ran an enema from the first time I was fucked in the back of a dirty book store 40+ years ago, through multiple sex partners and a couple of lovers... and only recently have found that is an expectation that the bottom will run a hose prior to a fuck session. I have noticed, though, that condoms seem to pick up the slightest bit of fecal matter, when I saw little to none back in the good old pre-AIDS days of barebacking.

 

[Pchon68]

I take a shower and put a finger in my ass, just to prepare myself lol

 

[Berty1]

as a bottom I want to be absolutely clean (enemas) when im with a guy, probly why I don't bottom with a real cock that often and prefer dildos.(thank god i love deepthroating)

the main problem I had, was when I started bottoming (around 18) I was bottoming with other young guys (20s), and since we're so desensitised by porn, we both think anal sex must be always clean. so when I had an accident for the first time, lets just say the burnt child dreads the fire.

since than ive started to douche after each motion, to the point nowdays i feel disgasted with myself even if i used wet washes.

and now being almost 30, i feel like an idiot when i hook up with older guys cos they all know accidents can happen, and don't really worry about it. yet im still enemaing all the time and freaking out about having accidents that i cant fully relax and let them pound my hole and enjoy it.

looking back i wish my first was and older guy..

I can understand you ...but shit happens and trying to eat well and douche until clear water happens...use the enema douch ...the hose type give too much water..and then wet pounding occurs..also a towel under your ass helps.

 

[JDyvim]

The vast majority of the time a small squirt of water (50-100ml) and release, repeated a few times means you're all nice and clean down there for a couple of hours. However, there are times when you:
a) want to be good to go from dusk till dawn,
b) you keep rinsing and the water still doesn't go clear,
c) you want to get fisted or use a dildo the size of a baseball bat(!)

In those instances you can do a deep clean, here's a pretty good guide on it:
Anon URL

Although I stress that this shouldn't be done regularly, save it for that special gang bang.

 

[JayR]

Oh I like all these mutual showering things, it makes me horny each time h go on: