i didn't actually came out; it just happened naturally...
or i was actually outed when i was really young. in 5th grade, when my homeroom adviser asked for a parent-teacher meeting, she told my parents her observations about me, being effeminate, and that's about it.
i think my parents knew it already since before that meeting. who wouldn't if their son likes to play dolls and with girl neighbors instead of playing rough-it-up with boy neighbors.