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I don't buy that.
My dad's parents were un-educated and poor. His father came from a large family with many kids and a small subsistence farm that was too small to split up between the kids. He was finished school very young, worked on the farm till he was old enough to get a job, and then started at the absolute bottom rung of the ladder in an aluminium factor working with hot metal in sweltering heat for long hours and fuck all pay. He believed in bettering himself, and through nothing more than hard work, he was able to rise through the ranks to foreman, before leaving and getting a job as a truck driver for a brewery - why? He wanted to see the country! He never did get an education, he never did make a lot of money, but he saved very hard, and achieved his life's ambition - both of his sons went to university. My Dad inherited his father's work ethic, and was able to climb up another rung on the ladder, starting his career as an office clerk, and making it up to senior management, and was eventually able to become an entrepreneur and strike out on his own. He did what his father did, and made sure to educate his kids, so I got a college education, and was able to start a career in IT.
At no point in our family history from poverty to middle-class mediocrity was there any need for a handout. My family pulled ourselves up by the boot-straps. I didn't have to do it, because my grand parents and parents did it, but that doesn't mean it's not just as possible today.
In fact, I share my office with the perfect example, a guy my age who is doing the same job as me, but who was born into one of the worst slums in Dublin. He was able to pull himself up, he worked hard in school, and was able to get a scholarship and hence a college education. He's just bought a house - something his parents were never able to do.
You also have the inverse, kids born into very well off families with every opportunity wasting their lives and living off handouts.
Society is not deterministic. People are not mindless control-less sheep!
I asked my office mate what he thought about the riots, having grown up in the same conditions - he didn't think it was an excuse or a justification, and went on to excoriate the same chip on the shoulder or entitlement mind-set that Sean has been speaking against here.
Nothing justifies being immoral shits like these wankers!
Now - having said all that, I strongly believe in giving people a hand up, not a hand out, but a hand up. Help people to help themselves, but don't create a system where they become dependent on help - that breeds problems, and it breeds a sense of entitlement and a chip on the shoulder.
I find it my duty to vote for progressive parties who believe in a just society, and I do that in every single election I am entitled to vote in. I want to see more money spent on schools and youth centres. I want to see the massive chasm between the poorest of the poor and the richest of the rich shrink by orders of magnitude. I want free healthcare and education for all, so that every child born into every home has the same opportunities to make something of their lives, and that no one has to beat more obstacles than anyone else.
That's why I agreed with Bender001 that we need to restore order now, and then tackle the injustices in society. It's not enough to just restore order and then carry on regardless.
B.
I agree with the last part, and partly the first too.. though I think the times are different: one needs education in today's world in a totally different way than our grandparents. The world around us has changed quite a lot from those days.