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Peter I think you must admitting the thought that very soon she will leave you forever! It surely would be a very, very sad day.

Thank u so much, I admitted for longer and I have run through this few times, but it's always "too sudden"......:worried:
 

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Maybe most People don't know, the relationships between a working dog and a human is so Special.... :heart:
 

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Maybe most People don't know, the relationships between a working dog and a human is so Special.... :heart:

Believe me Peter, I know what you are feeling at the moment. It's horrible. And you are true - there are so many people who say "What? It's only an animal, a dog - so what?!" But all these can't really understand the love between dog and man! Look into the eyes of your dog - and you will see all the unconditional love.
Well Peter I feel with you.
 

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It's valentines day four months after my partner died. Not only aren't we together, I'm sitting up tonight and thinking about how his son very violently threw me out of our home with nothing (since his family inherited after his death, not me...) how I was forced to pack up my stuff and leave at the last minute, how there were so many things I wanted/needed to keep/take with me that are now gone, how I'm broke and broken, I even had to give our precious dog away because I couldn't afford to keep him on account of his medical problems. I'm staying with friends and after a month that's getting kind of tense, but it's taking time to get my new place ready. I'm imagining how this day might be if he was still alive and my life was intact, it's very sad.
 

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It's valentines day four months after my partner died. Not only aren't we together, I'm sitting up tonight and thinking about how his son very violently threw me out of our home with nothing (since his family inherited after his death, not me...) how I was forced to pack up my stuff and leave at the last minute, how there were so many things I wanted/needed to keep/take with me that are now gone, how I'm broke and broken, I even had to give our precious dog away because I couldn't afford to keep him on account of his medical problems. I'm staying with friends and after a month that's getting kind of tense, but it's taking time to get my new place ready. I'm imagining how this day might be if he was still alive and my life was intact, it's very sad.

I can't imagine how you must feel, but valentines day... Not that I even care about it, but all the hype kinda pops ones mind if one is alone. I saw a dream of the one guy I ever (at least this far of my life) would have wanted to be with, but he didn't want anything serious and I couldn't stand the 'just fun' with him no more and he rejected me. Of course it's not the same as losing your longterm partner, but it's just this day. I'm just gonna push threw this day, imagine like all is fine, gonna clean the house, get junk food and a good magazine, and be lika laa laa laa in my mind, no thoughts shall not come threw. But one thing is for sure, tomorrow wont be as sad as today, it will be (at least little bit) better, for me and you:)
 

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valentine days very sad no bf

I try to be happy about friends, but they all have some plans with their girl - or boyfriends... So I'll try to beh appy for them:p Soooooo it's junkfood day;)
 

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Thanks ottage. My partner wasn't really into valentines day either, as one his former boyfriends died on that day...and now I guess I know how he feels, though we would have had a nice, quiet day together, I would have picked roses from our garden (rose bushes that I planted myself,) and everything would have been peachy. But I like your strategy, I'm sorry you aren't with that person or anyone else, but getting through the day is very important, there are so many more to come. :heart:

I can't imagine how you must feel, but valentines day... Not that I even care about it, but all the hype kinda pops ones mind if one is alone. I saw a dream of the one guy I ever (at least this far of my life) would have wanted to be with, but he didn't want anything serious and I couldn't stand the 'just fun' with him no more and he rejected me. Of course it's not the same as losing your longterm partner, but it's just this day. I'm just gonna push threw this day, imagine like all is fine, gonna clean the house, get junk food and a good magazine, and be lika laa laa laa in my mind, no thoughts shall not come threw. But one thing is for sure, tomorrow wont be as sad as today, it will be (at least little bit) better, for me and you:)
 

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Thanks ottage. My partner wasn't really into valentines day either, as one his former boyfriends died on that day...and now I guess I know how he feels, though we would have had a nice, quiet day together, I would have picked roses from our garden (rose bushes that I planted myself,) and everything would have been peachy. But I like your strategy, I'm sorry you aren't with that person or anyone else, but getting through the day is very important, there are so many more to come. :heart:

And thank you back so much ritsuka! Heh we have easily enough love here in gayheaven for one valentines day:big hug::p
 

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By some sadness, always looking forward.. and positive:thumbs up::thumbs up: thx otage
 

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I have pm'ed another Svip in a kind way with a question..............but no Response :eek:
 

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Had a crap day at work:(, but glad I'm home now :) , hopefully tomorrow will be better day.
 

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My brother visited today. He's getting divorced, and they have daughter who just turned three. We have never really been that close, but I'm worrying how will he cope. I'm good at handling and facing my shit, always have been, but I fear that he will try to deal with it the classical finnish way, numbing his mind with alcohol and escaping the whole thing. I'm not saying that it's likely, but I fear it. Well, not psychic, so.
 

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I got a fucking flu.... ad I have so much to manage these days.....
 

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This sucks, here I was, ready to jogging on 4.30 am on my first day of long weekend, but the plan ruined by a damn heavy rain. Sucks
Wish this damn rain over fast.
 

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I asked nicely for a SVIP member if he could not post me any gif pics on my profile cause it slows down my PC,freezes my web browser and have difficult time loading the page after clicking the replying button and i get no response, just ignores:( so rude,

but i do appreciate and love the beautiful:x cute picture he sent me. :hug:

Update: Got a kind response from the SVIP member, thank you. :)
 
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First world broblems: I wanted to make chicken, but I had forgotten to take it out from the freezer, so I had to pick food from the drive-in. I could have walked to a store nearby, but it's slippery outside:p And while waiting my food in the car, I wanted to surf with my phone, but battery was low and had to save it:worried:
 
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